i'm 13 going on 14 and completely flat-chested. please help!
Question Posted Monday June 16 2008, 1:53 pm
i know you will just be like "oh, it doesn't matter" and "people who really care won't care" but i do care. i'm a teenager, and i care what other people think and all of my friends have them. i'm underweight and short, but so is my friend who's the same age as me and she's even more underweight than i am, but she has boobs. and her mom is flatchested, and she doesn't have a sister. my mom's kind of flat-chested, but she said she started getting boobs when she was my age. and i have none. if i gain weight, do you think i'll get boobs? because people alot thinner and smaller than me, but the same age, even have bigger boobs than me. it's not like i'm anorexic, i eat what i want when i'm hungry until i'm full. i don't make myself puke or anything stupid like that. i eat really healthy, too.
also, people that eat junk food seem to have bigger boobs, is that true?
StarryNightSkies answered Monday June 16 2008, 3:55 pm: i didnt get boobs until i was 16, my whole family, and all my friends had boobs when they were way younger. turns out that once i finally grew them they're way bigger than all my family members, and most of my friends.
laynners answered Monday June 16 2008, 3:29 pm: I used to be flat chested as well. I gained about 10 pounds and all the sudden I started to grow 'there'. Then I lost the weight and my boobs stayed the same. I also started my period around this time, so I think that might have influenced it a bit. If you haven't started your period then don't worry about it, you will probably gain weight in your chest when you start. If you have already started your period then just accept that your body is different and you might not get boobs until you get older.
It might not help, but I like it better when girls don't have boobs vs. big boobs. I think having bigger boobs isn't very attractive.
meg063085 answered Monday June 16 2008, 2:28 pm: dont make yourself gain weight just to get boobs, because then u might end up with a weight problem later on. Dont worry that you havent developed yet. When I was 13 I didnt have boobs yet and all of my friends did. Now, I have bigger boobs than them. No body is the same, everyone develops differently, so dont stress about it, just give it time. [ meg063085's advice column | Ask meg063085 A Question ]
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