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ok got this gril i like and were really close friends and its a real turn off to me that she smokes cause it is decusting and waste of money and harmful.... even if nothing happens with us what can i say to get her to quit...i have asked her before and she has for a while then started back up what should i do and what can isay to let her no its not worth it!!
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Knowing from experience, you can't force someone to break a bad habit. They have to make the decision to quit on their own. I know it sucks but all you can do is let the girl know that you care about her and wishes she would stop.
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tell her that its a turn off.
tell her that alot of guys think its gross and that she'd be so much more respected if she didnt smoke.
then tell her that YOUD like her more and have much more respect and liking in her if shed just stop because its not doing anything good for her.
sure it may take away stress, but its adding to likeliness of death.
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Suggesting to a smoker that you want them to quit can sometimes irritate them. So if you really want her to quit, ask he if she even wants to. If she does, then you can suggest ways to help her get through it.
It's already a plus that it turns you off, because if the two of you end up together, I doubt she'll want to do things that gross you out.
If nothing happens between the two of you, and she doesn't want to quit, there's nothing you can do. Be careful, because if you push her, it could make her resent you because smoker's tend to feel controlled by by people who only want to help them.
I hope she, and you make the right decision.
Good luck.
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