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Friendship....is it worth it? I love this friend to death, but lately I can't really tell if we are actually "friends" anymore. She completely ignores me on long intervals, and then decides to talk to me again when it's convenient. Next year she's going off to college so I probably won't see her very much, even though we are neighbors. Is this "friendship" worth it?
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It's worth it to talk to her about the way you've been feeling. It's important in any friendship or relationship to hear each other out. This way, you can tell where the friendship stands, and if it happens to go back, you can gather closure on it.
If telling her how you feel is a lost cause, and doesn't change things for the better, then it wouldn't be fair to pretend anymore.
Friendship is a tricky concept to some people. You shouldn't have to deal with a part-time friend who's there at their own convenience.
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