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Summer Love?
I like this guy, and we've hung out a few times in groups and a few times alone. We mostly talk about school stuff, but I thought we flirted more too. I finally got up the nerve to text him and ask what the deal was. He said that he had thought about it, but it would be really hard because we're both going away to school after the summer. I still like him, so should I still try to hang out with him or just forget it? I don't want to become too invested if it will just turn into nothing. help?
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Well he is being real and honest with you, so just think for yourself first, if you would not mind having a short summer relationship, but if you want more than just a short relationship, I suggest you continue to hang out with him, and become good friends, because soemtimes, after relationships things just get all awkward and that ruins a friendhsip that was beautiful before! And if you wouldn't mind a summer relationship then, ask him if he wants one too, before you put yourself out there. Helps if he decides no, he can't have a summer relationship. :P
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if you think you can handle having just a summer relationship.. then go for it. you guys can go out during the summer or hook up or whatever. but just know that when summer ends it will probably be too hard to continue the relationship. you just have to decide if you can handle that or not. and if he can handle it too. it doesnt seem like he wants to do that. but that shouldnt stop you guys from being friends and hanging out. maybe you could turn it into a 'thing' instead of a relationship.. ya know?
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