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he says age differene matters
ok well i met this guy a while ago.he is really cute and i really like him he is about to turn 17 and im about to turn 14(3yrs).he had a girlfriend before and then he broke up with her and one day i went to go talk to him and he was like hey how old are you and i told him and he kinda looked upset and said damn i cant mess with you unless i wanna go to jail =[.well then i saw him back with his ex-girlfriend like two weeks later.now when i see him he is always lookin at me and smiles he also comes by me sometimes.i think he thinks me but im not sure.my parents dont seem to mind when i tell them i think cuz they are about two and a half years apart and all my friends think it would be cute and that the age isnt a ig difference.and one day he also called me his snowbunny which if you dont know is a fine,curvy white girl who likes colored guys and im not quite sure if it was kinda a joke or not.i would like to date him cuz he is like the perfect guy for me.anyway how can i tell if he really likes me or not and like what are ways to like get him to notice me more as more then a younger friend? thank you<3
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Ok, if he thinks he'll go to jail for going out with you or even messing with you, he's not well-informed. It's only illegal if he's 18 so maybe you should let him know that. Because I have a friend who couldn't date a guy because he was 18
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You know, by the fact that he said, "Damn I can't mess with you unless I wanna go to jail," & that you were his snowbunny, I can't help but get the feeling that all he wants is to get in your pants.
In my state, two people that are 3 years apart in age having sexual relationship with each other can land the older one in jail for statutory rape which I believe is a felony...
As far as telling whether he likes you or not...no one can except him. You know, the only thing I can tell you is to wait until you are 18 (because if he turns 18 and you guys have some sexual stuff, it'll be a longer jail sentence for him because you'll be a minor & he an adult) and if he still wants to go out with you then, well, there's your answer.
As for him looking at you as a younger friend, I'm not sure. I'm not the best one to keep friendships from turning into more than friendships.
Good luck
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Emily
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HE SAID IT,
"I can't mess with you unless I wanna go to jail"
Take heed.I'm sure there are plenty of guys your age that you can like,there is nothing cute about you're being young and he's much older.Whether he calls you snowbunny or sugar,honey,sweetie pie it doesn't matter,he's to old for you. Stop worrying
about if he likes you or not.My opinion he's too old for you and he explained that to you already.
Crushes are ok but there is always a limit when age differences are involved.
Hope I was of help,
Val
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