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I fucked up her relationship!!!!!
13/f
Well its kind of a long story but we were at my house for my birthday party and my friend is going out with this guy and my friend really hate kiley like REALLY HATES HER and so we texted her boyfriend on my fone pretending to bve "kiley" to see what he would say and he told "kiley" that he wood go out with her if he wasnt going out with my friend and so he didnt know it was us so now she knows that he would talk to kiley like that and not even tell her and so now they are in a really big fight and mite break up does this make me a bad friend for like letting her know that he would talk to other girls like this and what should I do Like he said that if he and my friend broke up he would go with kiley WHAT SHOULD I DO????
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What did he do wrong? He simply answered
a text message. Does she want a rude boyfriend?
He put the fake Kiley down as easy as he
could. He told her he has a girlfriend.
He didn't say "I have a girlfriend but I'm
willing to cheat on her, come on over."
What else would he be expected to do?
There is nothing wrong with the answer
he gave unless there was more we aren't
being told about.
I think she needs to tell him what she
did, which was worse than what he did.
If she doesn't chill out he will be
looking Kiley up, who has no idea of whats
happening. OOPS, he'll look like the fool
again.
If you want an honest answer, there
isn't enough maturity there to be in
a relationship. There is already lying
and petty little princess squabbles.
Tell your friend to grow up and try again.
If he never talks to her again he will
be the one in the right.
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There are pros and cons to this.
Con: You shouldn't have really done that in the first place. I know you can't turn the clock back now but let it be a lesson in the future to not interfere like that and play games.
Pro: It's made everyone realize he's not a very good boyfriend if he's already got other girls lined up for when he breaks up with his current one. No proper boyfriend would tell someone they would go out with someone else if they didn't already have a girlfriend. It's just not nice and shows he isn't really bothered about his relationship.
What to do?
If it's not obvious already, don't tell him it was you. It'll just cause more unnecessary arguments and you won't exactly get a good name at the end of it.
Let it all blow over.
Oh.. and tell your friend to dump him.
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Your deffinetly right here. I mean if your a "true friend" you'd tell the other. I would want to know. Wouldn't you? I mean if my boyfriend would go out with an enamy on the rebound do you really want them as your boyfriend in the first place? I think that now that you've told her what she needs to know you need to lay low for a little bit. Sure, give her advice and everything and keep her posted if you find out anything more but make sure the guy doesn't find out because then if that gets around school no guys would want to date YOU. And no one wants that! I don't think you were wrong at all. And honestly, i would break up with that guy. Like i said before why go out with someone if they don't mind going out with someone else. That makes me t hink, is he using your friend? does he just want a girlfriend? is he afraid to be alone?
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