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confused...=(
okay im 13 years old and i have a sister who is 16. she has this boyfrined who i dont really like and i think that hes a bad influenece on her. well today she went to NY with him and his dumb self influenced her to get a tongue ring. my sister is dumb for doing it, but shes not supposed to have one. i think the ring is getting infected. i want to tell my mom about it but idont want to be a snitch or cause too much drama. please can someone help me!!!
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I am sorry to tell you this, but you have to tell your mom. You think that your sister's tongue is becoming infected, which is so bad you have no clue. She could end up losing her tongue!!! I am sure you are aware of the phrase,"When somebody you know is in danger tell an adult..." Well your sister is. Tell. Just ask your mom not to say it was you who told. Say she found out on her own.
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telling your mom could mean a lot of grief between you and your sister, so if i were you i would wait a while and see how the tounge ring goes. but sit down with your sister and explain to her your feelings, and that you just dont want her to get hurt and end up in trouble. If you go against your sister and tell your mother right away, then its only going to cause her to rebel more, and me mire influenced by her boyfriend.
i hope i helped.
-jessicamarie.
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Tell your mom. If it is infected her getting to a Dr is more important than you being a snitch. When things calm down from the tongue incident talk to your sister, calmly, and explain why you don't like her boyfriend. All the reasons. It will be difficult but don't get upset and don't yell at her. Don't tell her she's stupid. Talk to her like you would want her to talk to you if the situations were reversed.
Talk to your mom about why you don't like her boyfriend. You may have seen a side to him that your mom hasn't and is unaware of and that may tell you if you and mom both see the same things.
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