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my friends boyfriend is taking over her!
okay well my best friend has a boyfriend and he is a nice kid but she is spending too much time with him. like when i call her and ask her to hang out she will say oh i have to study when really she will be with her boyfriend and it makes me sad. we have used to hang out all the time before this boy came and i love her so much and i really dont want to loose her as a friend. she sometimes even tells me that this boy is cheating on her even when she doesnt know it for sure. then she will text me saying how sorry she is for not being with me as much as she should because "boys come & go but friends stay forever" but as soon and her and her bf are ok again she just goes back to her old ways. it makes me very hurt when she doesnt want to spend time with me and she ditches me.. i think our friend ship is falling apart but i really dont want to loose her. :'( what should i do??
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ive been though this before. this girl probly hasnt just lost you but all of her friends and you are proply the only one still tryin to make it work because you are one of her true friends. the advice i can give you is to tell her whats happening she wont want to hear it and she might even try to deny it or get mad at you but at least you told her. then just let her go. its goin to be hard but sometimes the best thing for people is to find things out on their own even when you really dont want them to. then sooner or later she'll realize it and want to know whats goin on. if this happens when they have broken up usually she will realize what she did. but if its before then tell her that you feel she has no time for you or that to you it doesnt seem like she wants to keep yalls relationship strong.
well i hope i help and that everything works out
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