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well, i was dating this guy for just about two weeks, and he went on a school trip and on the way home him and one of my (girl)"friends" sat together on the bus. and btw, shes a pretty big slut, she flirts with all her friends boyfriends and anyone elses, but anyways, they held hands and apparently she was like "i feel dirty" and he goes "it's fine, don't worry she wont find out" (she being me :p) and then she got a fruit roll-up out of her bag and put it in her mouth and he ate it up to her lips and then they kissed. Like, even though he did say that, that didn't mean she had to go along with it. they bopth knew it was wrong and that it was going to hurt me when i found out, and they knew that i would end up finding out sooner or later. but im really mad at both of them but it's really weird because i don't feel a huge connectionw ith him, but i can't be mad at him. he's like my weakness. but, he cheated on me and o broke up with him. but, i don't think he deserves a second chance. and, he has a little bit of a drinking problem and idk, but i think that he needs someone there for him and idk but i think i might have just been that person bevaise i know for a fact that when we went out he was sober. but, i font want to be that person trying to help him through it when he's cheating on me or whetever. but, i don't know what im trying to asdk, i just need some help. i need to straighten out my feelings for him and be aware of whats going on.
sorry for it being so long. (link)
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well first off its good that you broke up with him. and even though you did break up with him that doesnt mean yall can be friends. make sure that you dont have any romantic feelings for him then forgive him and just be his friend which is probly what he needs right now.
well i hope i helped.
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Can two people be god parents if one is cathlic and the other is presbyterian? (link)
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yes they can
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How do I explain to someone that I love very much that also loves me, that I'm going to commit suicide? Please don't give me a list of reasons why I shouldn't, I only want advice about the question I asked. (link)
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the best way is to set them down and tell them whats goin on and what the reason is for your choice. make sure that, that person knows that you love them and they have nothin to do with you commiting suicide. Be prepared in what there response may be. and also realize that if you love someone truely love someone you dont want to hurt them. and this will hurt them.
so whenever you do tell them treat the situation very delicatly. and be with them as long as you can.
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okay well my best friend has a boyfriend and he is a nice kid but she is spending too much time with him. like when i call her and ask her to hang out she will say oh i have to study when really she will be with her boyfriend and it makes me sad. we have used to hang out all the time before this boy came and i love her so much and i really dont want to loose her as a friend. she sometimes even tells me that this boy is cheating on her even when she doesnt know it for sure. then she will text me saying how sorry she is for not being with me as much as she should because "boys come & go but friends stay forever" but as soon and her and her bf are ok again she just goes back to her old ways. it makes me very hurt when she doesnt want to spend time with me and she ditches me.. i think our friend ship is falling apart but i really dont want to loose her. :'( what should i do?? (link)
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ive been though this before. this girl probly hasnt just lost you but all of her friends and you are proply the only one still tryin to make it work because you are one of her true friends. the advice i can give you is to tell her whats happening she wont want to hear it and she might even try to deny it or get mad at you but at least you told her. then just let her go. its goin to be hard but sometimes the best thing for people is to find things out on their own even when you really dont want them to. then sooner or later she'll realize it and want to know whats goin on. if this happens when they have broken up usually she will realize what she did. but if its before then tell her that you feel she has no time for you or that to you it doesnt seem like she wants to keep yalls relationship strong.
well i hope i help and that everything works out
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I'm a big girl. I'm not fat and I'm not chubby. But I'm just big. I'm not structured like those typical bikini babes..who fit into a size negative five through 0 in abercrombie and whose leg is the size of one of my arms. I have a big bone structure. And it makes me feel really really bad. Sometimes I feel okay with myself..sometimes I don't. When you look at me from the back...I look proportional and all. I'm proportionally fine. In fact, I have curves and I'm physically active. I dance, I go to the gym regularly. I eat healthy. But I find myself wanting to be smaller. But I know I'll never be that thin. Or maybe I will...but it's just so hard to believe. Well..most of my friends..or people I know...are really really thin. And it looks so pretty :( It makes me feel bad. The beginning of my teenage life has been ruined with self esteem issues (as I used to be chubby). Standing next to one of those typical teenage Abercrombie girls, I look like twice bigger..I look like an adult. People tell me it looks mature and unique, but I dunno. I'm not taller...just bigger, like I said a million times..(sorry). I also have severe acne issues which appeared just two months ago. They're being treated with Accutane. Yet, I still feel bad that I have to withstand this. I've been told I'm a really good-looking girl. Yet, I lock myself in my room sometimes and cry. Because I want to be thin. And because I want the acne to go away quickly. I feel like while I'm experiencing all this, all my skinny and beautiful and clear-skinned friends are having a blast. Because they're gorgeous. They have boyfriends, the perfect bodies. Skin.
I don't know. What can I do to make myself feel better about my size? :((( This is ruining me. (link)
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we are all our worst cridict. when you look into the miror you see yourself completly different than others do. self esteem is hard to odtain i used to have very bad issues about it. one thing that my help is when you are thinking about somethin negitive say 5 things possitive about yourself. also realizing that your friends have problems with there appearence too. everyone does. and realizing that you are who you are and have amazing friends that who like you just the way you are. you just need to look in the mirir and say "you know what i am pretty" than leave dont let the bad thoughts build up. it might sound gay but it works.
well i hope i helped.
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My best friend, John, is going out with my other best friend, Michelle. He likes another girl, Stephanie, and he is having trouble choosing between the two. He wants me to give him advice and I don't know what to say because I think I might be in love with him. Like seriously. He already knows I like him, and Michelle also knows. He's told me he likes me back. He even said that if it wasn't for Michelle and Steph, he'd go out with me. I know Michelle loves him so much... I feel really bad, but I can't help it. I can't push my feelings away. I talk to him on the phone all the time and we flirt a lot more than we should. So, what should I tell him, and what should I do about my own feelings? Please and thanks. (link)
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Well first you cant help how you feel, you cant control your emotions. Your in a pretty sucky spot. You probly dont want to ruin your realtionship with your friends but its the guy you love so its hard to pick. But mabey think abou this if your friend was truely your friend would she be doing this to you? But then again mabey she liked him first. i dont know. Then about this guy if he truely liked you why would he be goin for the other girls. It seems like he just cant make up his mind. And you probly make up excuses about the things he's doin because you love him. The best advice you can give him would be to take it slow and to think honestly which girl would be best for him. Because the fact is he's goin to hurt two girls and possily mess up a good friendship. Its hard loving a guy who is your best friend because you dont want to risk that relationship but then you know that chance you might be able to be together would make you the happiest girl in the world.
My advice to you would be to tell him again how you feel about him. And let him know how your feeling about all this going on. For me looking on this i dont think its right for him to ask you for help on this exoetially if he know how you feel.
well i hope i helped you and i hope everything can work out for you.
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