today i was in class and my friend brought up this girl's name, and I knew the girl and her sister as well. The girl is my age and her sister is MY sister's age. My sister and the girl's sister are friends. Well I kinda slipped out the girl's younger was a bitch in class to my friend. And the girl's best friend was sitting hearing everything, and i didnt know it was her best friend until she left the room and my friend told me. So apperently the girl's best friend told the girl I called her sister a bitch, and now the girl wants to go off on me and her sister is mad. But it is true, the girl's sister isnt exactly bitchy, he just acts preppy and thinks she knows everything, and i know this cause shes over at my house like every weekend hanging out with my sister. And it's the final week of school, and I dont want to get into a fight, and I didn't really mean to call her a bitch, more like braty or something else. And I have no clue what to do! I dont want my reputation to be ruined. I dont know if I should just apologize or what? Plus, i dont want my parents to find out otherwise im gunna be toast...! Please help!
15yrs/USA
younger girls are 12
If I were you, I would apologize to her. If she wants to start something, she won't accept your apology. But hopefully, she'll be mature about it. Plus, if your sisters are both friends, she can't hold some grudge against you forever.
Oh, and when you apologize to her, don't say, "Sorry. I didn't mean to call you a bitch. I meant that you were bratty." Ha, that wouldn't be good. ;) And don't try to cover it up by lying either (as in by telling her you never said that, you were talking about someone else, etc); that never turns out well.
Just tell the girl that you're sorry, and you hope she'll forgive you.
If you think she's gonna go off on you before you get a chance to apologize or after you apologize, you could always get her, her sister, you, and your sister together & talk it out? I don't know if that would be a good idea or not though.
LiTTLEGiRLBLUE answered Friday May 30 2008, 9:40 pm: I think that you should appologize to her. And if he blows you off than just ignore her. But try not go get into trouble. If she wants to fight, it's better if you avoid her as much as possible.
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