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Is is weird that I think like this?
I think that I am over-analytical, and I dont let anything go. And I always look for a deeper answer, because to me, no one does something "just because". If someone asks me a question, my first thoughts are "why would they want to know that, what are they trying to get at?" I cant just simply leave it at maybe they are curious, or just have a general interest in what ever the topic is. Same principal for actions, like if someone does something for me. While I dont say anything out loud, I dwell on many things that possibly have no deeper side.
Am I paranoid or something?
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This is a great question! I am the same way. I am always told that I am too analytical or that I think too much.
It isn't weird at all. It is detailed, and intellectual to have the ability to go deep. Have you ever taken a personality test or psychological evaluation? I have and it showed me that people think differently, they respond, and react differently. I am a very analytical person, and detailed oriented. I like detailed explanation and questions answered with depthtivity. I will say this, it is annoying when I am unable to communicate with people effectively - they seem to get annoyed with me by my questions or my answers. as I get annoyed with them for their simplicity. I am always told that I am too complicated or complex. I have heard it for years and I still hear it today - so that means that this is who you are, how you are and it must be accepted. I find NOTHING negative about being this way at all. I am actually glad to see someone else is the same way because it is very rare and odd to come across people that are gifted as such.
I have found that it does cause barriers within a relationship if the person you are communicating with isn't on the same level as you may be. I have found that it has prevented me from getting jobs too, it has caused me to basically be set apart, and considered as different because it's out of the norm. I love the way I am and I love the person I am, and have no intent of changing and I hope you don't either, because we aren't paranoid, we are in tune with our mental and have the ability to tastefully express it, acknowledge it,and intellectually think it. Be proud that you have the ability to go there!
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Theres nothing wrong with thinking deeply about things. If anything, its a very unique characteristic someone can have.
If your interested in the way you think, research Sigmund Freud, he was into alot of the psychological things and believed almost everything was due to the subconcious. It's not wrong or weird and your not paranoid, you just like to think things through alot more than other people.
Just dont dwell on things such as ex relationships and what not because you may end up never letting go.
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you need to be a scientist lol. it's probably something your parents or someone around you did while you were growing up. you pick up traits really easy when you're little. i'm the same way with the "just because" thing.
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