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How should a girl go about telling a guy, that she's been in a relationship with for almost a year, that she doesn't want to have sex any more for personal, moral and religious reasons? It's gotten to the point where he expects it so it's kind of hard to just start saying no out of no where.
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I thought really hard about your question, and I think I've done as best as I can with this. I'm a guy, and I know that when a girl has sex with me, I feel that I am important to her. If a girl were to stop having sex with me suddenly, I would one be upset that I wouldn't be having sex any more, but even more, I would be scared she had stopped having feelings for me. I think the best thing you can do is sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel. After that, you need to do as much as you can to show him you still care about him. It's not fair. I know, but he will have serious doubts about the status of your relationship after you seemingly randomly tell him you don't want to have sex any more. You need to take him out, buy him a gift, make him a card, do anything to show that he is the most important thing in your universe (even if he isn't). Also, explain to him when you will feel ready to go back to having sex with him. This will show him that you care about him now, that you want the relationship to thrive in the future, but that you just realized you aren't really ready to have sex now. That's the best I can tell you. Regardless, be ready for him to be upset. He most definitely will be, but it will be a lot easier if you do it like this.
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