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sexy photos
so im taking sexy photos for my boyfriend (dont judge me!!!) :)
andddd im wondering
should i..you know...somehow remove my hair down there?
like whats more appealing to look at?
id ask him but that seems like such an unsexy thing to ask
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Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
1) Do not give naked pictures to ANY guy unless a) You're a pornstar b) He's 30 c) you've been dating for a year and he's 30.
2) If you are under 18 both you and he can be charged with production of child pornography, indecency with a child, corruption of a minor, possession of child pornography, and a host of other felonies that will basically ruin your and possibly your families lives.
3) Hmm. If you take them with film, you cant get them developed because you could either have them turned in or the developer will make himself some duplicates to make sticky later. If you take them with digital...
Well, lets just say that you should NOT commit nude pictures to files. The internet is a scary place. 5 minutes on kazaa and 30,000 old pedophiles will have your picture. And its so hard to make sure you deleted all the copies of anything. A disc, a CD, an e-mail, a hidden folder. And then after the break up, its all over myspace.
I read a news story the other day about some stupid 19 year old who posted his 15 year old girlfriends naked drunk pictures on his myspace. Yeah, hes facing felony charges, but her pictures are now all over the internet. Once its out there, you can't call it back.
4) Sending naked pictures via e-mail is just asking to have the FBI knock at your door saying "Did you send this? Ah! These handcuffs are for you!"
Basically, unless you're 25, and he's 30, and you've been dating long enough to know that hes not going to ever show them to anyone without your permission, its a terrible idea. Angry men become irrational and have great capacity for being assholes. Why do you think "Some girl gave her boyfriend pictures and now everyone's seen them" has actually become a cliche'?
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I'm not judging you but I am asking you to THINK before you do this. Photos like this have a habit of resurfacing and causing damage after a relationship is over.
You can't be certain whether or not they would ever be seen by his friends or distributed electronically to other people. If you don't want anyone else (even if you think it's only him) to ever see these photos than don't risk it.
Also, when it comes to teens or anyone underage in a state of undress or sexual pose that can be viewed as against the law if distributed or someone even has them in their possession. Just recently several girls were expelled from an American junior high school for doing what you plan to do because the person they gave the photos to distributed them across the entire student body.
It's a way to get in trouble and gain a reputation. It could cost you at school and with the law. I just want you to THINK before making a decision here. That's not judging you. It's also not for us to tell you whether or not to shave that area or how to look sexy in said photos. You know him and his likes/dislikes by now. All I'm saying is you need to weigh all these things before doing this.
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Yes you probably should. The sexist thing for a girl in a picture is no hair down there. Most guys actually find it kinda gross to see that. So i would suggest shaving or waxing before you get those pics.
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