I really like my bgf possibly even love him and i know he loves me. He just told me. I may be going into a serious relationship with him soon. The thing is we have an amazing friendship and bong or w/e but im not physically attracted to him. I really wish i was. Some things i like but i have had other bf's that i thought were just SO hott but hes not like that. Hes attracted to me and i turn him on and sumtimes when he says sweet things to me im turned on but not really when im with him in person or he does sumthing. im not meaning like to have sex or anything cause we def. arent planning for that! but i would just like it if i was attracted to him. its kinda saddening that im not haha. any advice? thanx!
and is 14 to young to have a serious relationship with a boy whos 15 1/2 cause we are amazingly close and have been best friends for a year+ i think it's fine if you really care about the person but i want to know what all u guys think :)
Attraction? Thats a fickle thing. I cant say that Ive ever become attracted to someone I wasnt attracted to off the bat.
14 isnt too young to date someone. I don't think that you will really get the impact of what a serious relationship is until later, but thats alright. You cant love someone until you learn how, and you cant learn how without experience in relationships.
If you want to give it a shot, give it a shot. He likes you, and he wants to be with you. Thats not going to change or go away on his side. If you think you could like him back, try to. Otherwise hes just going to torture himself. [ PhilIvey's advice column | Ask PhilIvey A Question ]
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