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Question Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 1:46 am

16/m
I have this friend. Well, now we're more than friends because she asked me out today. and i said yes. I really really like this girl, but im afraid things are getting awkward between us, and because of it she'll break up with me. and this is only the first day...

Im not sure if maybe im just being paranoid or something, but the only way we knew each other was because we made fun of one another and joked around. now that we're more than just friends, I don't know what should change and what shouldn't.

the point is, i really like this girl, but i dont really know HOW to be her boyfriend. i dont want us to be ruined. and i dont want us to break up either... thats why this is confusing me.

anyway, here's my main question: is this just the type of thing we will get used to? or is this never going to work out between us? PLEASE help.


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PhilIvey answered Thursday May 22 2008, 1:46 am:
You're stressing out too much.

Be yourself. She asked you out. That means that she likes who you are.

Conversation is one of the many ways into a womans heart. Ask her about herself. Things you dont know, like what she wants to do with her life, what she likes doing. Find something you have in common and talk it to death.

Its a day old. If you are stressing out about it this much then it WILL die. No girl wants to be with a guy who is a nervous wreck around her. Like I said, remember that she asked you out. She already likes you. That means it is no longer your job to make her like you.

Its your job not to mess it up.

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