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guy flirting with me.. joking or serious?!
this guy in my class who has kinda been flirtin with me all year asked me today if i was single and if i wanted to go out sometime. his flirting is always like a messing around with me way. so i figured he was joking when he asked me to go out so i was like uhmm no! then his friend was like ooh she turned you down and he like stopped talking. im not exactly sure if it was true or messing but i kinda feel bad. should i be more flirty to him to show i was kidding cuz i thought he was kidding? lol. hope it makes sense. thanks!!!!
PLEASE dont tell me to ask him if he was serious or not. i dont wanna actually bring it up again unless he does, then ill talk about it. im somewhat interested, but he seems a bit player-ish. im not sure if he was kiddin and it would be way awkward if he was joking =] just opinions on what to do around him. THANKS! 17/f btw
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If you turn a guy down then even if you flirt with him, he will still think it was a no. So he may just think you want to be friends or just want to flirt but not date him. And he will be afraid to be rejected again because he thinks your answer will again be no.
Of course he may have been kidding but you don't know that for sure. Get to know him better, then decide if you really like him, and try to figure out whether or not he is a player. Make sure you like him enough to actually date him. You should never date a person if you are only sort of interested.
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Well, if your instincts are telling you that he may seem like a player, then just move on. There will be plenty of other guys coming and going in your life. You shut him down, so he got the message that you weren't interested. I think that you should keep the flirting casual, DON'T OVERDO IT, or he'll think that you're weird.. He wasn't kidding though, if he actually asked you out and flirted with you throughout the year. I think that he just finally had the guts to ask you out, but was rejected. If you want to talk to him about it, just say something like 'Hey [name] can I talk to you?', and explain the situation. Again, don't overdo it, keep the 'discussion' fun and light. If it doesn't work out, then don't worry. Like I said, there will be other guys.
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