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highschool next year, lovesick, heartbroken
I graduate eighth grade soon I have 2 school days left then a week of ceremonies and school parties and my graduation. The high school im going to next year already hates me, the teachers and a lot of the kids. I don’t really do anything wrong. Im just really hyper then depressive but i probly am bipolar I just don’t wantme to be labled bipolar and be on medicines although itd help so much. One of the sports im tryin out for is cheerleading and people say im the opposite of a cheer leader but I did it this year, they say ill change the whole meaning of a cheerleader whatever if its good or bad idc but I will have fun at that HEHE. I don’t wana say im gothic but I love the gothic stuff and culture just ta give ya the pica. Im so afraid I wont make friends next year in highschool. Im not going to the same high school as any of my friends except one guy that used to be my best friend but I haven’t talked to in forever.
1 How do I make people not hate me they don’t even know me?
2 What do I do about bipolar every possible thing adds up and I 99 chance I am but idk if I wana get tested or not?
3 Will the people hate me even more if I do cheerleading and scare the shit out of them just because, it hasn’t stopped me before and I want to cheer I just hate the perky preps?
4 I can easily make friends with people, if im around atleast some people I know but I wont be i doubt ill make friends tho?
5 What do I do incase I get my heart shattered like my last best friend that we liked eachother then he made my life hell, I cant trust anybody at all anymore bc of it?
Answer any or all of the questions pleassse and thank ya. Im 14/f
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Everyone is looking for an excuse these days, some condition to blame there lousy life on, why is that do you suppose? Could it be that they just want to act the way they want to and not care what others think?
You know, I didn't even read your whole post, 'cause I've heard it so many time I could puke. We all have those things that make us different, those things we have to conquer, but because the big drug companies want to make money off of it, they tell you, you can't help it. Your a victim and it's not from a malady, it's from greed.
Stop making excuses for yourself and learn to deal with it. Your problem is you don't understand what you are, much less who you are. You are a Human Being, the joining together of the Human animal and the spiritual Being. Because the animal part of you is hard to handle, doesn't mean you stop trying and stuff drugs in your mouth. The spiritual being is there to control the human animal, let it. It's easy to be the animal, but you see what happens to your life when you do. If you want to learn and grow, let your spirit lead you. Let your spirit answer the questions.
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You kind of remind me of myself. And because before I entered high school I was in a similar mindset and situation as you, I want to warn you not to make the same mistakes that I did. The first thing you need to do is promise yourself that there is nothing to be afraid of and that no one will hate you. Be positive, trust me, if you just smile and talk to the people next to you in your classes and just greet people with a smile, it will make a world of a difference. If you truly think you are bipolar, then go have it checked out because the pills really help. Learning to make friends on your own is important, so don't see it as a bad thing, be confident in yourself. I understand the whole falling for the best friend story because I have been there and suffered heavily from it, but you can't close yourself off from all other guys. The number one problem with people is fear. If you fall for a guy and get shattered then you will have to get back up again. Just remember that you are amazing and that life goes on. I am telling you that high school will be good or bad depending on your attitude. So make your choice based on that.
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