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major life problem
13/f
so this is a classic story of im in love with my best friendd...with a huge twist.
ok so my best friend(we'll call him 1.) is an amazikng guy. i am in love with him and have been for a while now. my problem is that my friend told him i liked him and he said he only thought of me as a friend. that hurt me really bad. so i tried to accept it but i am having some troubles with it. he acts like he likes me too. and he is not like this with anyone but me. here are some examples
he plays with my hair
he says my name more than anyone i know
he finds anyway possible to touch me
he looks me straight in the eye
he tries his hardest to make me laugh
^which is pretty easy for him
he gets his head REALLY close too mine when he can
he tries to impress me
he will try to find a way to be beside me a class
ok so yea...does he like me or not?
HERE IS THE TWIST.
about 3 months ago i started talking to a guy online. he is really nice and can easily comfort me and make me feel better. well as soon as we started talking he asked me if we could date. being excited i said yes. so it ended after about 2 1/2 weeks(i ended it). i told him i didnt know him enough and we took it too fast. he understood. so we have been talking for a long time now as friends.well i realized that he is a WONDERFUL guy and i have feelings for him. not love but something like idk i would date him and see where it goes. so i told him this and he said he still liked me too. so i asked him if this meant we were dating again or what. he said it was completely up to me. so i told him that i wasnt sure what to do because of this other guy.and if i did date him i would feel kinda guilty because i like another guy. he said that if dating him was going to make me feel guilty he didnt want me to feel that way because of him. i told him i would feel bad because i wouldnt feel 100% true to him. he said that it was my decision and the ball was in my court. i told him that yes i wanted to date him.
so here is my other question... did i make the right chioce or did i make a bad choice because i am in love with another guy? help please!!
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umm okay do you know this guy like personally on the internet?? like you have seen him in person?? you didnt just chat in a chat room or something??
sorry you didnt give that much info...
i think you should wait on this boy because it sounds like he might like you but he just isnt sure how to take it considering he might be afraid of falling for his best friend...yeah
or you could date the guy on the internet..BUT ONLY IF YOU KNOW HIM PERSONALLY i cannot stress that enough...i mean kids die from this stuff...i dont want him to take you...im pretty sure you dont either. He could be some old horny guy with nothing better to do except talk to 13 year old girls...
im not going to tell you you are too young to fall in love because i believe that you can fall in love at any age...its just whatever your heart tells you to do..
all i can say is look over the facts and over your feelings...the rest is in your hands...
-hayley
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Well you are only 13 years-old so you have a long time before you really have to worry about falling in love right now. Don't worry about making the wrong choice, live life to the fullest and the best way you know how. If you screw something up then oh well, you have a long time to make up for it. Go with your gut, but don't jump to conclusions, if you don't know the guy on the interenet very well, then I would say to just give it time. You may also want to give your friend some time to see where he stands.
Hope I Helped.
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