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Emptiness


Question Posted Wednesday May 14 2008, 7:40 pm

Hey, for almost two years i have felt this feeling of lost and helplessness. But, in the last year I lost my best friend and my on and off again boyfriend.(they did not die, but the relationships has been completely damaged) I know I am only 16, but I loved them both so much. So many things have happened in the last year, that I don't think we can ever be friends again. I am just so lost and I cannot talk to my family or my other friends. It hurts to see my ex with other people, but yet the whole time we were together i pushed him away. I became involved with alcohol and i even tried drugs. (that is how i lost my best friend, she couldn't forgive me) Please help me, i do not know what to do.

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Brandi_S answered Thursday May 15 2008, 9:15 am:
I know you are pretty down in the dumps right now, but you have to realize relationships come and go. You will find a new boyfriend, you will make new friends. Perhaps your best friend will forgive you if you stop abusing alcohol and drugs.

Alcohol and drugs don't make your problems go away, they only cause more. Alcohol is a depressant and will only make you feel worse.

ygs-30/f

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xlovexx463 answered Wednesday May 14 2008, 8:36 pm:
Honey, this may sound stupid to you, but I really suggest talking to a guidance counselor or something like that. Like, if you feel like you can't talk to your family or other friends, talking to a counselor will really help I promise. Is there a guidance counselor at your school? School counselors are free and not obligated to tell your family you have meetings with them until the third meeting I believe.
Feel better.

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