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i need help
well first off i'd like to say im 14 and female. i got my first kiss when i was 13 and then we broke up. he is the only guy i have ever made out with and i really want to hookup with someone. i know that sounds pretty bad but i dont know but i just do. problem is my friends keep trying to hook me up but my "friend" ends up saying well i just wanna let you know i like th person you like and i cant control my feelings(this is after i tell her i liek a guy) and this is everytime i like a guy she does this. so she will go after them and it makes me so mad because she is suposed to be a best friend, not betray me. and then everytime the guy falls for her. so no hookup for me, or date, or boyfriend. it makes me really upset and i dont know what to do. please help me, thanks.
p.s. i have tried confronting her and she denies it.
p.s.s. sorry this was so long.
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Hey its not that long.
And its okay, Ive only had one guy kiss me, well 2 although the 2nd one i would really call it that.
And you cant control who you have feelings for. You just cant.
Tell your friends that they cant froce you to love/kiss/hook up with anyone unless u feel its right,otherwise its not fair on the guy, AND YOURSELF.
Secondly if your friend is copying who you like, trick her. Its a test.
Say to her "oh i think i like ______." (thins person has to be someone you used to like.
But dont tell her who you REALLY like.
And your right she should be doing this it really isnt right or fair. Fair enough if she thinks the person is good looking but going after them is not right.
So i strongly reccomend this test.
Lastly, I suggest you tell another friend, about the boy and about your friend. Also if she really annoys you, sorry if this sounds harsh but just dont talk to her, shes obviously not a good friend that worthy of your time.
Oh one last thing, also about this test try saying a boy she doesnt know - or even make him up. Shell feel jealous or left out or something like that, and move on... hopefully...
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Hit me on one of those and let me know how it goes =)
Good Luck!
[Sorry my answer was a bit long too]
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