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Ok so im a junior in highschool and like many other girls in high school i like a guy. well its more than just like. anyway it gets just a little more complicated than that. a good friend of mine is in love with him...but he turned her down. i know he feels the same about me. but i dont know what to do. what should i do?
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dont assume you need to talk to this guy. girls these days should stop hiding there feelings and let people know whats going on. go up to him and keep it 100 with him. let him know you like him but dont say you in love with him that will scare him off if you do this. try and be calm. you should let him come to you that way you would know he likes you. try saying hi ever now and again this would get his mide thinking about you alease. be reserved. remember the worse he could do is turn you down. if he do turn you down make he see what he will be missing. guys always say dang i should have got this girl when i had the chance.
hope i helped xoxo
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I have to disagree with the other advice given here. You are under no obligation to protect your friend's emotions after this guy has made it clear that nothing will happen between him and her. If they were dating, or if he hadn't turned her down yet, you would be in a completely different situation.
You have to remember that this guy is a person too. A person with emotions. It would be cruel and unfair to deprive him of the person he likes (That's you) because she's good friends with a person whom he rejected (your friend).
Assuming your friend is around your age, she should be mature enough to handle rejection responsibly and realize that it takes two to work a relationship and anything that happens between you and this guy is a product of neither of your efforts exclusively.
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Hi,
Well the risk is you louse a friend - but if you do louse her over this is she a true friend? It will no doubt be difficult for her if she really likes him too, but he's not interested and that's not your fault. I would say go for it! but keep your friend in mind and try to do it sensitively.
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YOu and your friend are more important thatn any guy. A friend and I faught over a guy and in the long run he treasted us both like crap by dating us. Remeber that ever guy that glitters aint gold sweetie.
good luck
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