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ok so what do you do when you've been talking to this guy for about 6 months, have liked each other for 9, and have been 'official' for almost 3, and sometimes it's great being with him and i dont wanna lose him =] other times i feel tied down & that im just not wanting to be in a relationship and i need my own space to do whatever the heck i want? but i know if i break up with him ill be kicking myself in the butt and it would break my heart to see him with someone else or ruin things between us... help !?
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Actually, I just got through dealing with that. I am in a long distance relationship, and for a little while last month, I just felt like taking a break, so I told my boyfriend that. He said he understood. Well, about a week went by, and I realized that he was really the only person I wanted to be with. I know that sometimes it feels like it would be better to see other people, but if you really like him, then you would feel terrible after going to somebody else. I think you should stay with him. I am currently back together with my boyfriend. We are doing great. There are times that I don't want to be with him, but then I realize that i still like him, and I would feel terrible if i went out with wnybody else. Just try to stay with him. Hope this helps
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i think you just are in the tween months. it's the time in the relationship when the spark is dying down. you aren't feeling all bubbley about you two together anymore. yes, the feelings are still involved but it's not as exciting. this is when the relationship gets serious, when you are tested really. to see how far you will go to make a relationship last with this person. how much it's worth it to you. i think you might want space sometimes, which is good. just take time for yourself and make sure he isn't smothering you with attention constantly. also try to lighten up with some fun. do something crazy with him, go see a movie, take a nightly walk, be romantic and spontaneous as possible. but make sure if you want to br single you're willing to live with the outcome that he'll eventually find someone new. hope i helped some. good luck!
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