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not a true friendd
okay i have this friend..we'll call her A. so me and A have been friends for 5 years now and 2 years ago she got really mad and turned all my friends against me for about 6 months. well last year my life was starting to come back together..i got my friends back and it just seemed alot better. well apparently she wasn't done with trying ruin my life. for spring break..which was april 11th for me i took A to myrtle beaCH WITH me adn my family..she was a bitch to me wihle we were there. she treated me like i was absolute shit and it was annoying but since she was the guest i had to be nice..we got home after that week an d we didnt talk as much and then we were working together in spanish class and shes really really dumb in spanish..like always asks me for answers and we have a regents this yr that its mandatory yoou pass. so we were working together and she goes how do you spell bicicleta i go sound it out and she like threw her paper and got so mad at me i was like uh..okay. well this happened last thursday and shes still mad! like ik its the dumbest reason but AGAIN shes trying to turn people against me. she commented me on myspace nd goes not trying to start anything but keep ym name out of your mouth..i didnt asnwer cause im sick of her shit and she told my friend that if i didnt answer she would text me and if i didnt answer the text she woulod come up to me and bitch me out and beat my ass..i think its pathetic to be honest. but ik soon she will want to be my friend again but she does this to me so much im just gonna tell her im done with her bc she considered me her best friend and thats not how you treat a best friend. idk what im really asking i guess i just need help on this whole situation..
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Well, she sounds like a really bad friend and if i were you i would quit hanging around with her. I had this same situation kind of and the girl would get all my friends to not be my friends but i didnt let it get to me, and i just quit being all of their friends and it made me feel a whole lot better. I was never stressed anymore. My grades also went up. So, what i would do is just stop talking to her and if she takes your friends away, you will find better new ones because if they are going to act like that to you, they aren't your friends anyways. Hope this helps and if you have any other questions feel free to message me!
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Well, what's the reason for her anger? I'm assuming it was nothing that you did since you didn't mention anything in your letter.
I guess the simple answer is to ignore her: block her from your myspace (if you can) and don't sit with her in class. Sit with other people and don't look at her and certainly don't help her when she asks for it, you don't owe her anything. You've got no reason to speak to her if she's trying to ruin your life.
Go to a teacher and tell them what's happening as well as your parents. This isn't cowardly, it's brave because your 'friend' has no right to do what she's doing and your stopping her before she hurts somebody else.
Sad really, usually, I'd be looking for a way to save this realtionship becasue it sounded great before all this happened. But I can't see a way out of this one.
Remeber: the bullys are the weak ones, they're the ones with issues and can't face up to those issues and try and blame somebody else whom they think are weaker, when in reality, the weak ones are the bullies themselves. The strong ones are the ones whom stand up to them.
Good luck with the future,
triquetra
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