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Should I just ask him out?
Okay well I am a 15 year old girl and there is this guy his name is Matthew. I really like him and we had been friends awhile back, but than I moved away. I recently got back in touch with him. He kinda remembers me, but I really remember him. I like him so much and think he likes me too. When he calls me we talk for like ever and he always ask if I am doing okay. He tries to remember stuff about me and asks me alot of questions, it seems like he is trying to get to know me all over. Well he has asked me if i would go out with him, but never actually asked me out. I really really like him still and have told him that right out. I think i should just ask him out because I think he may just be too shy, but than I am too shy and afraid of rejection. It seems like he wants to go out with me..Should I just ask him out?
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I think you should definitely ask him out. I had problems with Fear of Rejection when I was your age (and in all honesty still do at times). In fact my F.O.R. could have kept me from meeting some great people and from enjoying a relationship with someone who might have had a lot to offer. The way I look at it now is, worse case scenario it doesn't work out, but atleast then you know. You can move on from heartbreak, you can work through it (even if it seems hard at times), however if you don't ask, you'll never know. If you don't give yourself that chance than you may always look back wondering what if. I say ask him out. Put yourself out there. If it doesn't work out atleast you've given yourself that opportunity. I wish you the best of luck and hope that I've helped.
<3 Leslie
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