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A girl
3 weeks ago a girl said she started falling for me and really liked me, after spring break word got around I hooked up with some people on a cruise
and it broke her heart but we were never going out. First of all I never hooked up with anyone
and she doesn't believe me. I told her today I wanted to be with her and she said a couple of
weeks ago I would of said yes but I just can't trust you so i think being friends is our best
bet. Well I told her i was going to try to win her trust back. She said she had some feelings for me
now but just doesn't trust me. What do I do to get her trust back? I want to soon before i loose her.
soooo yeahhh thankss
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Well let her know that you are willing to work on it and prove to her that you will be faithful. It may take a while but once she sees you are willing to give it a try and really work for it, she will probably come around.
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So you are telling me that she isnt even listening to you about your side of the story and is going with the flow of the crowd, and you were not even dating...odd. I mean if she doesnt trust you, OR listen to your side of the story before making assumptions that are false, then is she really worth it?? Defending every little thing you do....
BUT if you do want to earn her trust, tell her she has to listen to you before you can begin that. Because you didnt do anything wrong and you feel that you need to defend yourself in this case. It isnt fair that she makes these false accusations against you without hearing it from you. Get her to listen, and if she dont she isnt worth your time, because it is showing signs of insecurity on her behalf. If she is going to tackle you everytime you get a yard you will never make a touchdown. (just an analogy there).
-hayley
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Do you really want to be dating someone who has such trust issues? I mean, if she doesn't believe you now, chances are that if you start dating, she won't believe you other times as well. Do you really want to have to spend long periods of time defending every little innocent thing you do?
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