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i need advice
hey erin its um rachel kind of one of delaney's friends.
um yeah i kinda have like three questions sorry, if you don't want to answer them, you don't have to, haha. (their about the same person though :D)
seriously, if you don't want to even read this or answer it, you don't have to.
um okay, well i have been going out with my bf for about 4 1/2 months now, and i realllllly want to kiss him. Every time i ask him to come to movies with me and my friends, he can never go! I mean i know he's busy but ehhh. Well, anyways, He brings up like me and him kissing all the time when we talk on the phone. but what im asking is, when is a good time to like kiss him, or like how do i know when he wants to kiss me?
Okay and another one of my questions is, that how do you know like a guy still likes you? because sometimes like i always think that he^ doesn't like me at all. Like we talk to each other all the time, and we just started saying i love you maybe, a month ago. then he says it though, it seems like he just doesn't mean it at all. I get really frustrated too, because he'll talk to other girls and not talk to me. One time i rode his bus and sat alone just for him to sit with me but he didn't and he didn't talk to me at all but he talked to another girl in our grade instead. He even shared his ipod with her and didn't offer to let me listen at all right in front of my face!
My last question is, my bf^ has like changed a lot since we have been going out. Like my best friend and him used to be like really good friends, but now all the sudden he hates her. It really bothers me sometimes because i like everyne to get along. He changed because he used to be so nice to my friends but now he's not, and he just act wayyyyyyyyy different than he used to act.
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heyyy rachel, i defff. wouldnt answer your question, b/c i answer everyones question.
you are only in 6th grade, right? well, you shouldn't have to rush this kind of thing. I got my first kiss when I was in 7th grade, and I'm in 8th grade, and the guy who kissed me, welll we went out for a year. you don't have to be kissed at the movies, that's not the only place you HAVE to do it. like for me, we were at a park. it's that simple. but you shoudlnt FORCE yourself to do it, and he shouldnt force himself, when the time is right, it will happen.
well are you friends with any of his friends? ask one of his friends to ask him how much he likes you and if he likes another girl, and then have him tell you what he says. rachel, you are only in 6th grade. 6TH GRADE! you shouldnt be telling your boyrfiend that you love him, b/c chances are, you dont know the real meaning yet. love isnt something you just say, you feel it.
you know, people change all the time. he could have been changing all this time, but you only noticed it now b/c you are so close to him.
heres something else. when/if you two are to break up. dont be down about it. you are in 6th grade, and there are PLENTY of people out there for you. im the type to ALWAYS have long relationships. in 6th grade, i had my boyfriend till 7th grade. and 7th grade, i had my boyfriend till this year, and maybe further on. life moves on, no matter how much you will miss them, or like them.
come back if you need more help.
erin.
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