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how to get a boyfriend
okay so i know this is a wierd question
but i dont have many guy friends and i dont really know how to meet some
i dont know how to explain it but it seems like im doomed to be alone forever
idk what to do all my friends always have a new bf and i cant even seem to get one
help
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I've been there hunnie! Everytime you turn around they have a new boyfriend when you are the one who is single and desperatley trying to impress SOMEONE so you'll have a boyfriend.
Well in 07 I got my first bf and was with him for almost 2 years but the thing was i didn't like him that much...i just REALLY wanted a bf and to fit it...well we are broken up. I didn't expect to go out with him at all actually but it happened...then i moved and i wasn' lookin then either and I have a new bf...and he's my first love and hopefully will be my only!
Sweetie I've found that when you are actually looking for one, you'll hardly ever find one, or if you do not one that's worth your time. When you aren't looking and just living life, that's when a guy will come along.
It sounds stupid and I thought it was too, til I did it.
It may take a while-a week, a month, a year, or w.e-but it works.
Guys don't usually like the girls who are trying to grab their attention. And the ones who do, usually only use the girl for ONE thing.
Just be yourself and stop looking. Have fun. You're young hun hell I am too, you don't NEED a guy and you won't be alone forever, that i swear to you!
This will sound stupid but it's true:
When the time is absolutely right you'll find the guy.
I hope I helped hun
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When your friends hang out with there boyfriends and your there just ask them to bring someone along for you to hang out with. you don't have to nessicarily go out with them but you can make a great friendship with them. you yourself need to put yourself out there and make the effort to talk to guys...most guys don't like to make the first move when it comes to just being friends. sometimes there just as, if not more, nervous than you. If you don't have a bf just yet..chill out! its fine...you shouldn't feel pressured to go out with someone just so you and your friends can all have dates. thats not the point of dating. i think that all you really need to do is make at least an effort of some sort to talk to guys. even if there dating your friends just be like hey whats up?
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You are not doomed to anything you don't want to be doomed to. Your thinking must be clear and focused on what you want, and then you need to let it breathe. Our wishes don't magically come true, but like planting a seed or thought, you need to water it or nurture it, giving it time and space to find itself without hovering too close and suffocating it. Plant the ideas you want to spring forth and then go about living with positive energy in every area you can. You will attract the best that way. Energy attracts energy. Sitting and moping just isn't going to do it. Don't focus on what others may have at the moment...that is a waste. Your time and energy needs to be helping your own desires grow. A word of caution. Don't settle for the first guy that talks to you either, there are plenty of weeds that first appear to be what you want...don't settle for imitations.
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