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Trust
Is it possible for two people to be 100% honest with each other?I mean,to be able to tell each other EVERYTHING(and I really mean everything),and to trust each other unconditionally? I would really like any opinions on this. Thanks =]
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I think it is possible, but it has to be the closest bond. I think in a way that everyone has their secrets. maybe not ones that they can even understand but they are there. so I think it is very hard to express everything. but I do think you can fully trust someone but it takes strong souls and very long time!
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Think about this - you're not specifying about the two people being a boyfriend and girlfriend. If we're not limiting the answer to only them, than consider twins. That should say a lot. I have one and honestly we don't hide anything from each other. We tell ourselves our flaws, good and bad points. Because we know we would never be mad at each other for anything the other says, we don't care how harsh the truth is and are completely honest to each other. There are times when we spend so much time together and have almost nothing to say to each other so we just tell what we did that same day, who we met and how we felt. It's like retelling my whole life so she knows everything that I did. I've even asked her a couple of times, "Do we even have secrets from each other?" and she always says toughtfully "I don't think so, If I remember something you don't know, I'll tell you what it is". But keep in mind, not all twins are like that. What I learned when I came to the USA is that when twins arrive at elementary school, the teachers purposfully seperate them into different classes so they almost never interact. They consider it unhealthy to be so close to someone because than they wouldn't be socially active with the other kids. So it's rare to meet a set of twins that close. Me, I'm not from the USA originaly and Europe doesn't care about stuff like that so when they wanted not to see us together in the same classes and doing the proects in the same group, I was 16, and completely pissed at them. Anyways, they couldn't do anything because we were just a little bit too old for them to impose whatever kind of control. It is possible for two people to have a completely honest relationship, but it would be most likely met between siblings. Friendships never do last long and there's always going to be at least one little secret.
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i think thats definately possible.
but if you do have that type of relationship, be careful. if you hate his haircut, say it absuloutly nicely!!
i dont think its so healthy, because if you hate his haircut but theres nothing he can do about it, shouldnt you wait till after its grown out to tell him? i believe some things are better left secret.
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of course it is possible. But, it is also very tought to become this way. It takes alot to trust someone and be honest with them to the extent. If you feel like you can be honest with them, then you should. If they are able to hold that trust and return it, then that's amasing. If you can, that's great.
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