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I'm in 8th grade and 13. I like this guy. He isn't popular or anything either. He hangs out with like nerdy people or whatever. I don't label people but I couldn't explain it. So I like him and he has a twin brother. I sometimes talk to him but hardly ever. I have 3 classes with him and its just confusing. I really don't know what I should do. Whenever I do talk to him, I get all hyper or something like that. I usually don't talk much, only with my friends. But I feel really comfortable talking to him. We have more of tiny little small talks though. I'll give you some type of example except it wasn't much of talking. I was asking out loud if anyone had any paper. And he doesn't sit near me but he looked over and gave me 4 pieces of paper. Haha more than I needed but he did. I think he is really nice but the thing is I don't know how to stop acting so weird. I don't know if he likes it or thinks I'm stupid. Please help me out. Thanks so much!
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hi i'm 13/f and my name is michaela. i know what your going through..i liked a guy like that and he has a twin to lol. but i think you should talk to him more, like even have phone conversations, or just go up to his desk and talk to him, like about earlier activities and maybe some questions. but be you and dont be afraid, many people are a fraid of talking and miss out on alot of things that could happen. be open, be a friend and maybe try to get closer than a friend. talk about interests you guys have and stuff you might have in common. try hangin out with him more like walking to classes or your lockers.. but dont try so much its annoying. just talk a casual talk. i hope i helped. if you have anymore ?'s that you think i could help with. i will be happy to :)
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ohkay so im a grade above you and i get the same way around guys that i like. i dont know what to say or what to do. and my advice is (harder than it sounds, cause i know ive tried.) just to be yourself, i know you've probably heard that a million times but its really great advice. and be aware of what you are doing or saying. if you act goofy with your friends then thats how you should be with him. like i said just be yourself. cause if he doesnt like you when you are being yourself then its pointless. cause then you will worry about trying to be something your not trying to act one way to please him.
and i think you should go for it.
i mean what do you have to loose. if your wondering if he likes you ask him. or at least tell how you feel,that way you wont have to wait around for him to make a move cause im sure if he likes you hes just as nervous.
hope i helped =]
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This sounds like a crush, they often make you act hyper and weird and sometimes stopping that sometimes is very difficult. Just when you are around him be aware of yourself and what you say and what you do. Maybe you should ask him and maybe even let him know that you get nervous around him. Are you thinking about like maybe wanting a relationship with him? If so then I say start talking to him and as you talk to him you will probably get more comfortable and not act as awkward as you are.
Hope I Helped.
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