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no sex
okay so i really like my boyfriend and we are always kissing but its kinda getting old how do i spark it up physically with out having sex of any kind???
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I would suggest to stop kissing so much. At leats for a little bit. Talk more and flirt and roleplay and be silly. Flirt... hold hands... dress up for each other. You can kiss once or twice but not a lot. Just once and pull way. That way you will want to kiss each other and when you finally do it won't be so boring.
Dress up for each other, flirt, and take time t know each other. You can never know each other too much, Take time to be sweet to each other. You find it that when you're emotionally sweet to each other the kissing becomes... part of it... but it's not boring because it's not motivated by the physical part of the relationship. It's motivated by the emotina part of it.
I hope I could help and I hope things get funner :-)
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Here are a few tips from some websites that I have found:
"It's a no-brainer that kissing the neck feels good. But instead of just kissing, gently rub your tongue up and down your partner's neck. This will do two things. Initially, it will induce a tickling feeling, which will then become a sort of erotic tingle. It will also arouse your partner even more because of how you are teasing him or her with just the lightest of all touches.
Playing with your partners ears — nibbling and swirling your tongue — is a major turn-on. Another more indirect turn-on is that the close proximity will allow your partner to hear your breathing. For good measure, try whispering into his or her ears — sweet nothings are nice."
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Some guys are also totally taken aback when a girl intiates and takes control of the situation. It can be a total turn on. Also maybe a sensual massage, thats a way to touch your partner in a kind of sexy manner with no sex involved. Passionate kissing can also be a turn on, look deep into your partners eyes and mean everything.
Hope I Helped.
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I want to begin by telling you GOOD FOR YOU!!! on the no sex thing. I have ALWAYS felt this way myself, stood by it myself, and am teaching my kids the same thing (assuming you mean sex before marriage.) You should be proud of yourself!!!
Now, a few things you could try are some really romantic movies or a romantic dinner setting. Another thing that many guys like is when you tickle them, tease them. You can add to kissing some slight "biting" such as biting his lips or his neck- obviously you don't want to use too much pressure!. Massages can be nice.
Something I used to do before my husband and I got married was to read romance novels and perform the less pornographic things such as the biting of the neck and the massages. They can provide for lots of "foreplay" ideas without actually going "all the way".
I hope this helped a bit. I am always interested in helping a young person spice up their relationship without actually having sex... sex can wait.
Best of luck.
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