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help for rhe weary
I have recently met whom I considered at the time to be a good samaritan and the individual had decided to help me out by trying to get me a job and helping me out with any other assistance that I needed. I told myself that the person was just being kind to me because I an in a difficult situation and I also said that I would pay back the person as soon as I was able but now the person is telling me that they want to sleep with me.I recently accepted christ into my life and I do not want that sort of life especially since this has never happened to me before because I have always been working to support myself. what do I do. I an repulsed by the idea and to make it worse the person is a married individual.
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Look, first off, you do not have to sleep with anybody you dont want to. Nor do you have to feel guilty for accepting his help.
You have to tell this person that you had no idea that this is what he wanted. You should also tell him, as politely as you wish, that you do not want to have any sort of intimate relations with him.
If I were you I would cut all ties with this individual. At least if you are able to. He really sounds sleezy. This is a guy that tried essentially to buy his way to sex, and on top of it all he has a poor wife at home too. The less you have anything to do with him the better.
As for the help you have already received, you can choose to pay him back later. You can treat it as a simple loan or even a gift depending on how it was presented to you. If he did not make his intentions clear from the get go, it is not your problem now.
Good luck.
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