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FAMILY& B.F
ok this might be long ..but i need advice and i need it now PLEASE
ok well it all started yesterday when my dad came home and the lights were on in the house...and he ALWAYS tells me to leave them off because he hetes paying for electiric like 400$ and stuff..and he tells me all the time and that happend agian yesterday << not important but it made it alot worse
then my b.f is (G) ok he lives in my old town which is like pretty ghetto and drug you know those kinds of town and we moved from there for that reason
well i met him at a club and he is from my old town and what ever we like each other and we are now going out and we were fooling and he gave me a hicki..now i no its no big deal..but for my mom it is HUGEE!!!...when my dad saw it he showed to it to my mom and ALL HELL WAS BROKE LOOSE!!! lol...and it was so bad.. and...not to mention i broke my 250$ phone yesterday!!! at the same time...and the worse part is my birthday is in 4 days>>!! =(...
no another thing is i was histraically crying afterwards for hours ...beaucse of it when my mom just made feel more like shit every time she talked..it got to the point where she told me finally about the disease she has..now at that point i was done !! i was liek in tears all in and out..it couldnt of gotten worse..and she said she was gonna die!!! so knowing that i couldnt stand my self. so i got on the floor and got on my knees and started crying kissing her feet ( she didnt care she kept screaming and screaming)
when she left i cut my self..and continued to cry..then after what hapend was she agian after i clam down told met that i cant never go out,,,and that she doesnt trust me i can never go back to the club and that i cant have sleep overs and she i gonna think about even giving the phone back i stared crying more...and more....after that..she also said i have to make (G) my X_b.and that i cannot go out with ever agian...i told him that but its was over aim and he basically never responded back when i told him my parents want me to break up with you ..so whatever...
it was all realy bad we both apoligized and i was still stuck on the dying part ..and so i asked her about it she didnt answer at first she kept calming me down and so i asked agian and agian she didnt asnwer so i asked agina and she said she was kidding!!! can you believe that ..but the thing is im sure she might not have been and now im soo scraed..and lost i want to have her trust and my phone because i cant live without txting and i dont understand why she would say that ..from mypoint of veiw it was reallt messed up /..!!! and today she said we were gonna talk about myy actual punishmnet but i meanthis has been th worst birthday week on my life !! im so lost HELP PLEASE PLEASE
i know this was very long but please i NEED SOMEONES HELP HELP PLEASE i wwill rate you i promiss
thank you so much Y.B
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wow. I know another person who is going through a very though time as well. I have had bad days/weeks as well.
I'm goin to try my best to help you but it's so hard to tell you what to do. It would help if you gave an age.
Ok so, let's take this one at a time.
B.f-> your parents probbaly don't want you to see him because since you said yourself that you lived in not a good place before, they are probably worried that he would have a bad influence on you (with the drugs and stuff). So first try to understand that. For know just break-up because you need to deal with a lot of things and you don't need your parents yelling at you for somehting like this. Next time he IMs you tell him again.
Parents-> I don'tknow if your mom was really joking or if she was telling the truth. But, that is something very scary and a topic that you wouldn't really joke about. Leave that subject alone for a while and ask her some other time. Or you can talk to your dad.
Now, if what is happening with your mom is true thn it would explain their behavior perfectly. They are, themselves, in a tough time and are obviously stressed. Give them a break.
Phone-> I know you like texting but right now, you need to leave that. Just for a while, live with the discommfort before asking for a new phone or buying one yourself.
I know you don't want to hear this, but for now listen to them. Just go along with them. Let them cool down and get a chance to think about it. If you try to rebel, that will make things worse. After a week or two or even later (depending on how they are acting)talk to them about it.
As for your birthday, it is just unfortunate that this is happening close to your big day. I'm sorry about that. Everyone has these days/weeks.
Try your best to look on the bright side and take a couple of deep breaths. When you feel angry, close the door and just sit or cry and relax.
Good luck.
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