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I liked my best friend for over an year now. In July I fell in love..Febuary we ended the friendship to agreement we needed a change, we needed to figure things out, and to give me time to let go. Over time we could be friends again, so after 3 1/2 weeks we became friends again. It lasted 2 1/2 weeks, we discovered we weren't meant to be friends. So we are done. I didn't feel any pain or emotion in the last 1 1/2 weeks that this happened. Wednesday I got a slap in the face, and realized I may have hurted him more than he had hurted me, and that hurt. But as of tonight, I found it extreme painful that the chances of getting a 3rd chance at being friends are 1 out of 1000...I have only known him 15 months, but we became really close, I was able to trust him more than I have ever trusted anyone. He knows more about me than anyone. (We were never together nor did we ever do anything intimate) It really hurts to know that, that was probably the last of our friendship. None of my friends understand, because they aren't exactly expierenced in the level we were at. They just think it was junior high crap. Though he's 17 and i'm 18. Anyways, how do I find closure in this? Is it possible? Why does it all of sudden hurt when the last almost 2 weeks, I was fine with the whole thing I didn't cry at all?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
It hurts more now because you have gotten
to that place where you know you hurt him
badly. A very mature realization, I might
add!
For real closure talk to him. Apologize
for anything you feel the need to get
out of your system. You may or may not
end up being friends again but, you will
have cleared the air between you. It
should also make you feel a lot better. :)
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Actually this is normal for any friendship that turns into a relationship. The only closure you have is the fact that now the friendship won't work because there are other feelings involved. You were fine at first because you weren't really sure of what you had lost but now that you fully understand it it hurts ALOT more. All heart breaks heal in time and maybe you guys will be friends again but till then you have to deal and know everything will turn out better in the end
HOPE I HELPED
@};-ASHLEY L
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