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should i risk losing my friend?
Hi. I'm 13.
Ok, I've got this guy friend who I've been close friends with for eight years. I don't have many friends and he's the friend that understands me most and is closest to me. Within the end of the third year of knowing him, I realized I really liked him and by the end of the next year determined that hiding my feeling was best and that, if my feelings were strong enough , I could be content with only our close friendship. Lately, while on a week school trip, I, though never doubted our close friendship, found that he is really important to me. We're extremely close and lately, during the trip, I've been reconsidering asking about his feelings. I've also been thinking that, maybe, if i were to change my appearance to be more feminine, he might want to be together. Should I tell him about my feelings? Should I change my outter appearence, even though it totally goes against my morals? I know this could ruin our whole relationship and don't know if I sould risk it. I don't think it's worth losing over my selfishness. (I being aware of the fact that he values our friendship)I'm confused and have no idea what I should do. Should I just settle with and unrequited love and accept our close friendship or risk losing it? All I've seen is that relationships screw up friendships and I don't want that either. What should I do?
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Hi, thanks for choosing me to answer your question. Unfortunately, as I stated in my profile, I don't answer questions for 13 year olds. They are far too unoriginal and I just.. don't have the time. If you would like, though, search Advicenators for questions about liking your best friend.
Don't change who you are. Talk to him. That's about all the advice you're gonna be able to get from me.
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