ok so im a freshman in highschool
and my boyfriend is a senior
and yesterday he came over and stuff
and he asked me if i wanan go to his prom with him and i of course i said yes
but im like freaking out now cuase my parents dont really see me like the type of girl to have guys over all the time and do that stuff when i really am and if they find out hes a senior idk what their reaction is gonna be and im scared to tell them. and idk what to say
cause it would be differnet if my brothe wasnt a senior also and if i wasnt only a freshman so i really need help on what to tell them and stuff
because is less then a month away
and normally on prom night you go to a hotel and yeahh hah
and i know there not gonna let me do that soo
im hoping they will say i can go but i need help on what to say to them
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? WorkingItOutAsBestICan answered Sunday April 13 2008, 5:33 pm: Well you have to first understand your parents definately want you to be happy and safe, You do have to tell them and set up a good way to do so.
you might want to definately list the reasons you should be able to go and that you'll act as responsibly as possible so that you'll have there trust.As for the whole hotel thing...your parents won't go for that....but if it does happen make sure you're not forced to do anything you don't want to. Just be honest and upfront and if they do say no its because they care. Be Careful
DefinedEyes answered Sunday April 13 2008, 5:31 pm: Well.. I think you should tell your parents right away, and get it out there. I don't know if your brother goes to the same highschool as you, but I'm pretty sure your parents would want to find it out from you - not from your brother that you are dating a senior. I'm not going to lie either, the age gap between freshman and a senior is not a BIG deal, but the mentality is completely different, boys are slower to mature, that is true, but I guess what I'm trying to say is be careful. And if your parents do let you go to prom, just don't go to a hotel afterwords. Its not that hard not to do. Just because everyone "supposedly" does that, doesn't mean its the right thing to do. For prom, just keep in mind, you're only a freshman, you don't want to do something you'll regret, because it will follow you, your whole highschool career and could really do some damage.
Be careful, and best of luck.
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