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okay hi there My question is my bf and I had bn friends for like six years when a couple weeks ago we got into this big arguement about her friends who acted real bad towards me you know like ignorin me etc and when I told her about this we got into a big arguement and decided to call it quits I guess what Im askin is how do I get over a friendship which was more like a sister hood???
any help is apreciated!!
lxx
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Don't give up upon a friendship which has lasted for that long. Every relationship, whether it be in friendship or love relationship, experiances bumps along the road which i believe are tests to test the bond between the two people.
This is just one such test, to see if you can overcome your fights and remain friends, no matter what happens. So here's the thing, with a friendship which has lasted for that long, it's hard to get over because you'll still see each other and want to be friends. Trust me, it will happen.
So try and speak to her and get over the fight because this is a truely special friendship which you could benefit from in the future. What has happened has happened and there is nothing which anybody can do to change that, don't let one fight destroy something which has lasted for 6 years.
Who cares about what her other friends do? True it may hurt your feelings but if that's the way they're going to act towards you, then ignore them because why should their actions destroy the bond between you and your friend.
Good luck with the future,
triquetra
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Instead of trying to get over the friendship, why don't you call her and talk to her. Let her know in a mature way how you felt, and see if she can at least understand that. Then, you two need to work out the arguement that occured. You do not leave your friends because of one arguement. You learn from your mistakes and that makes your friendship stronger. Just something to think over. It doesn't have to be inside the box, think outside of the box. There are no absolutes except for death.
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