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Letting go.
I really like guy number 1 but he's really quiet, in person but we have a ton in common and I think he's really amazing just super shy so he makes me shy. Guy number 2 is a very nice guy who I've gone out with before and I've known him since I was 6 and he has a girlfriend now. I still might have feelings for guy number 2 because I find myself thinking about him a lot, but I try really hard not too. And guy number 1 is amazing. But I don't know if it'll work out because we never talk. What should I do? Forget both of them? Or forget like, everything? I'm just really confused is all.
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Actually the answer to your problem is much simpler than your making it. Guy # 1 is your top pick. You just need to find a way to break the ice and let go a little. Guy # 2 is clearly in your past for a reason. If things didn't work then, what would possibly make you think it could work with him now if he has a girlfriend??? You might say, well he will drop girlfriend for you. If he does that however, it makes him a dog and it's just a matter of time before he dumps you when the next best thing comes along. Be smart don't backtrack in life. Try doing something together with guy # 1 that neither one of you have done before. Maybe bowling, minature golfing, or rock climbing. I don't know. That's the part you should bring up and talk with him about. Tell him you feel like doing something new just for the fun of it. Have some ideas of what you'd like to try and see if you can get him to suggest anything. If you can get him in an enviroment where you are both out of your element, You have to interact to figure it out. Soon you both will be talking and laughing about your attempt to get thru it and the shyness will fade. The ice will break if there is chemistry between you. If not move on. Men are like busses if you miss one another will be coming along soon. lol Whatever you do, don't go back to what didn't work before and wont work this time either! Have fun and break that boy out of his shell. lol
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Well, since Guy 2 has a girlfriend, it's safe to say that he's off-limits for now. I'm thinking the reason that Guy 1 is shy around you is because he likes you and doesn't want to say the wrong thing or do anything dumb. If I were you, I would go after Guy 1 since he sounds really great, even if you have to make the first move. I think that since you have so much in common with him, once you start spending more time with him it will be easier to not be as shy.
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