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Guy troubles
ok.. so I'll try to keep this kind of short. there's a guy. Everyone say she likes me and he kind of flirts with me. Well, I'm not sure.. i guess so? Anyways, so last year I kind of started liking him for a little while before I talked myself out of it. I only talked myself out of it because I was convinced I would get hurt. I liked him because he was nice and "flirty" w/ me. Anywho, I have a feeling he would never ask me out because he's afraid of doing it. People have asked him out and stuff before as jokes. (hes not really popular @ school.) so my question is, how do i get him to ask me out? \i would say yes but not tell anybody because ppl make such a big deal when ppl start going out in our grade. And I don't want that to make it seem like I'm unsure.. I mean, i'm not ready to marry the guy or anything, but I'd definetly try it.
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You can't MAKE a guy ask you out.
You just have to let these things happen.
I just want to ask, what is the point of going out with this boy if you feel that you have to keep it a secret? If you feel like you don't want people to make a big deal about it, why do it in the first palce? It's like winning the lottery, only not telling anybody.
That being said- I'd really consider this relationship. I think that if you're going to commit to somebody, you should feel comfortable enough letting people know that you're together.
Other than that, like I said, you can't get him to ask you out. Try dropping hints that you like him. Smile at him, flirt with him, let him know you're interested. Or, just tell him. Write it in a note, call him, text him, just somehow let him know. That's the best thing to do, let him know without playing any of these 'I'm shy, you're shy' type games.
Good Luck =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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