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i dont know what to do about my boyfriend
ok so me and this boy have been dating for a wile... except he is my brothers friend so we have been dating in seceret and he always talkes about how hes going to tell people which i would love him to do he really is the love of my life but and i want to be with him forever, he is quite a few years older than me so for the rest of our lives is different and dont want to be tied down to someone i cant even be with in public... i want to be with him i just dont think now is the time i just dont know how to say it without hurting him or i just dont really know what to do... i know its a mess but any help would be great.. thanks in advance
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Its not a mess yet however if u continue to think the way you are right now it will be a mess. some problems need to be resolved ASAP. you cant ignore them and wait for the solution, if you feel that you should get married to him and you want to be with him then this is the time to say what you want? if you dont tell him now, and later if things change. it would not be his fault. it will be difficult for you if things dont happen the way you want to happen. But you will have to face it.
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If you don't feel like now is the right time for this relationship then you probably need to get out of it. Staying in it is just going to hurt him more in the long run and make you unhappy. But if you feel like you want to be with him maybe you should let everyone know you are together. You shouldn't keep it in hiding if you love someone, yes it might piss some people off but if you love him and want to be with him then thats a risk you have to take.
Talk to him about it and let him know all of your feelings. Then he can tell you how he feels and it may help you sort out your feelings and help you decide what you want to do about it. Do not stay in this relationship if you don't feel as though you want to be with him at this time. If it is meant to be then he will come back to you, if not you will be okay.
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Well with the age difference you'd have to be really careful because you don't want him to get in trouble for sure...and you don't want to completely tie yourself down because your still young and you want to be able to experience everything and anything you can. Just tell him that you honsetly aren't ready for a really serious relationship...like you can do the whole dating thing but you don't want to get wayyyyy too serious.
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