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ughh boys..
k im a 17/f and i hooked up with this guy who i liked. & he's in 2 of my classes. well i found out he was using me. he only want ed to hook up with me just to see my boobs and feel them up. (and he's really arrogant and full of himself, buff and he's a football player)well anyways i told some of my friends and i guess word got out & he found out & he's really mad at me. i tried to apologize to him but he wouldn't listen to me. because one day i told him i needed to talk to him & he said no. and i've been really upset. & i can't seem to ignore hi since he's in 2 of my classes and he's loud and always getting attention and everyone is always laughing at his jokes. (even me lol cuz well i still like him)
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Your move on telling all your friends he's this huge bastard probably gives him the message that you want nothing to do with him. Apologizing to him is something that you shouldn't bother doing unless a. you know for sure now that you were wrong about him and b. you want to get back together with him.
If he's an arrogant jerk you should probably just leave it at that - I mean, the way you have it now, you won't even have to use up energy on a messy break-up.
If you were wrong - and I hope you realize that not all boys who hook up with you fairly early have the intention of using you - try apologizing via email or written letter if he won't talk to you. Explain that you were completely wrong, you are so sorry, you shouldn't have told that to your friends... tell him that you freaked about the feeling up part, and you should have handled it more maturely - something like that.
If you've already told him all this, you've already tried, there's not much you can do, is there? Take a deep breath and move on.
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Well try to get him alone and when you do say you didnt mean for it to get out, And if he still doesnt want tto hear what you say slip him a note saying sorry in the nicest way possible
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Hey there okay uve pretty much answered the question yourself he was using you therefor hes a jerk!! Youve absolutely nothing to appologise for you hooked up with the guy all the girls want when theyre in high school!! and I know how hard it is to ignore a guy u like in school especially when hes in your class but in time youle realse that you dont need an arogant self obsessed guy in your life your better than that !! I know that this advice is probably not what you want to hear but in the end you just have to grin and bear it and in the end youle forget all about him and move on to someone who is worthy of you and who wont treat you the way he has/ is.
Im sorry if you thought I was being cheeky and I hope I was of help!!
If not then good luk in the future in all areas college etc but especially love.!!!
dxxxxxxx
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