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I don't like him/them.
Everytime I get a guy friend they always like me!! I do not like them like that. When they finally tell me they do I'm always honest and tell them I see them just as friends. They sometimes get hurt and distance themselves from me or act funny or mention it to me aall the time. I get guy advice from them, you know?
So here's one:
I haven't talked to Alex for about a year, year and a ahalf because he moved. Well he found me on myspace and called me. We laughed as usual. Then he mentioned how he said I changed and likes my physical appearance. I said thank you of course, then he started asking me relationship questions! (WHAT DO I DO WHEN THEY ASK ME? What's the best thing to say.)
Everytime I tell a guy my dream guy they take it as I'm describing them and I am NOT.
Anyways, we found out we are going to the same party/club in the city tonight (what a co-ink-e-dink!). He's gonna be there thinking I like him and try to show his friends and show off; I kno the story. But I'm single and ready to mingle but NOT with him! I know its gonna hurt him if he sees me like get a number/dance with guys. I don't want to hurt him. I just want to know how to handle this! It ALWAYS happens to me and I want to know if I'm doing the right thing. Now that I think about it... I should have told him from the start BUT he was tellin me about how his ex hurt him and how he wants to move on. I also think he thinks we were TALKIN TALKIN before he moved. N-O.
Thaaaaaaaankx in advance. =D
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this happens to me alot as well but you are doing the right thing. If you don't like someone the way they like you you have to be honest....if you play like you like them back they'll be hurt worse. So if the guy likes you that way always be honest, eventually they'll understand.
hope i helped
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