My best friend is about to date a guy who was a total asshole to me--i can't stand him. she asked me what i would do if they started dating, andi told her i didn't think we would be near as close because it would hurt to know that she wouldn't stand up for me in a guy i absolutely hate. She thinks this is completely out of line and that a best friend would support her decision. Although i see her point of view, i just think that i COULDNT feel the same way about her--i mean if a guy did that to her i definitely wouldn't date him!! Am i right here?? what should i do?
Redheadswim8805 answered Thursday April 10 2008, 9:08 pm: I see her point you are her best friend but she still should stand up for you and respect your feelings. i have the same thing going on right now except im in her possition. i think you should try to talk to her about it again and if she does date him just dont talk to him at all but still be friends with her, because you cant help the way you feel about someone [ Redheadswim8805's advice column | Ask Redheadswim8805 A Question ]
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