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hello again, i am annoyed at myself that every time i see her do something that might mean something eles i always think its a hint of her letting me know she likes me back. but i say i think too much into the situation.
I don’t know why this is bothering me, I always think out of the box.When I told my friend that I liked her she doesn’t feel the same. Today at school she and I were talking about her story she had to write for English class. She was talking about the main character is semi based on her. She said “she needs a guy friend” I ask her “will It be infatuation with the both of them? i know that you hate romance stories so do you want to write it as a romance?” she said “short of but it be like her liking him but afraid to be serious with the relationship because what if it doesn’t work out and it will effect there friendship”. I didn’t say anything but change the subject. Now I began to think that she was talking about us. I am being stupid to think that because she doesn't like anyone (that i know of). But I know I like her…
She isn’t talking about our situation, when I told her how I felt. Right? and how can i stop thinking to much into everything with her?
i am bi/female
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It's hard to say. She could be talking about you two, and this "story" is really a way to send you signals- but I find that unusual because she has turned you down already.
It could be that she is interested in someone else and is trying to see how you are going to react to it...but you won't know unless you really open that door and speak to her frankly but kindly and with care.
It's really hard to say, and it's sad that she cannot be open and honest with you (and vica versa) and really let you know how she feels -instead of just shaking her head! If she is considering dating you and is scared, she should be able to tell you as much- even good friends should have that openness and intimacy if the friendship is meant to last.
Maybe you should concentrate on opening the "lines of communication" with her..let her know how you feel (pick a time that is a comfortable situation), and I mean REALLY how you feel, not just that you "like her more than a friend" but how deep your feelings run, how often you think about her, etc: at the same time, be sure to let her know that because you care about her, and the friendship that you share- and regardless of how she feels or what she may say, that you will continue to support her feelings; and that no matter what happens, you will not get upset or turn your back on her- that you will always be her friend. The best relationships begin as friendships first!
Fact is, until you two really open up to each other, you will continue to wonder and won't be able to move on.
If you take the first step and be COMPLETELY open and candid, and she still refuses to open up to you, then you MUST resolve yourself to move on.
If you don't, then you will only continue to torture yourself with what will lead to an unhealthy obsession! (and a waste of your time)
In fact, if you open up completely, and she doesn't do the same, I would take that as a sign that she is just stringing you along until she finds someone else that is as infatuated with her as you are. Unfortunately, there are some people just want to be loved without returning the same, and that makes for a very one-sided relationship. Continuing in this manner will only make YOU unhappy in the end...and you deserve happiness!
So, it's time to be as honest and as candid as you possibly can, if that gets you nowhere..then it's time to save your romantic attraction for someone that really wants and deserves it.
Hope I've helped,
Many Blessings!
Jasmine
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