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How can i ignore my feelings?
I don’t know why this is bothering me, I always think out of the box. I mean I just don’t think of the now and always the future and what if‘s. When I told my friend that I liked her she doesn’t feel the same. Today I remember that I and she were talking about her story she had to write for English class. She was talking about the main character is semi based on her. She said “she needs a guy friend” I ask her “will It be infatuation with the both of them? and i kno that you hate romance stories” she said “short of but it be like her liking him but afraid to be serious with the relationship because what if it doesn’t work out and it will effect there friendship”. I didn’t say anything but change the subject. Now I began to think that she was talking about us. I am being stupid to think that because she does like anyone and me. But I know I like her…
She isn’t talking about our situation, when I told her how I felt. Right?
i am bi/female
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Perhaps she spoke to you about her story and tried to tell you that she's not interested.
She's probably finding it hard to tell you that she doesn't like you the way that you like her and she doesn't want to face hurting you by telling you that straight out.
Honey, you can't ignore your feelings towards her, your probably going to feel something for a long time but it's something that your going to have to cope with.
She obviously loves your company and your loyalty and friendship and doesn't want to ruin that by having a relationship with you.
I personally think that you need to talk to her, you need to sit her down and ask her how she really feels about you.
If she says that she doesn't like you in that way, then you need to respect and accept that in the best possible way that you can.
She also needs to understand that if she isn't interested in you, then she needs to be very patient, give you time, space and support so you are able to accept what she has told you.
Don't let your feelings come between your friendship though if things don't go your way. I'm sure you'd rather have her in your life then not at all.
I'm sorry hun, good luck :)
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To be honest, hunni, it DOES sound like she might be referring to your situation with her. It makes sense, anyhow. But, there is no way to know for sure without you asking her if it is. So, im afraid noone will really be of much help.
I will say this, however... sometimes people have a REALLY hard time accepting their sexuality when they think or know that they might be be bisexual, gay, lesbian, or whatever the case is. They can even confuse thier unwillingness to accept it as it simply not being true. Your right might not even realize that she has feelings for you or she might just not want to accept it and thus, act on it. You never know.
I would just talk with her and ask. Can't hurt.
Hope I helped.
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