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omg that you so much you gave the best advise. omg im comming to you. haa. but yeah your great. that sounds so good. your the best you give really good advise. so i might need some more. well this guy that i have liked for a year and a half now were talking again but his sister and i are best friends like were really close and i dont want to lose her as a friend. so i dont know what to do about this guy i dont think she should care if i liked her brother but im not sure. he makes me so happy and i dont know what to do. please help. should i tell her or if he askes me out what should i do? adn its really hard to talk to her about it bease its weird.
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Thanks for the compliment..I remember how tough (and still is but in different ways *sighs*) ..anyway how tough being a teenager was. Especially when it feels like you can't talk to anyone for fear of rejection or judgment! Fact is, I enjoy helping others out!
Okay on to your question:
I think waiting until he asks you out is a bad idea..start now:
I think that you should find out how she would react by approaching her with it in a casual way. When you and your BFF are hanging out, and you feel like you two are having a friendly connection/conversation (maybe she might even mention boys, who she likes, who likes you etc): Now is the time to say, something casually, like, "you know, I've been thinking..ya know, your brother's kinda cute. I hope you don't mind me saying that, but your my best friend and I don't ever, ever want to hide anything from you."
This way, you aren't too far "down the rabbit's hole" with her brother before you break the news to her. I believe that would make her much more upset.
At this point you will find out exactly how she feels about you and her brother going out..and we can go from there..*smile*
Good luck and Blessings!
Jasmine
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