I guess you could say I have a sex partner and alot of the times I'm with him or in a group of people with him I always think about us having sex[but obviously I dont act like it] and even when he's not around im always thinking about it.
We've been doing it for maybe a year now and I know that friends with benefits and that stuff isnt good but im wondering do you think he thinks about as much as i do? Because I don't want to be the only one with those thoughts..
You might also consider that he may not be ready to settle down into a relationship.
However at the end of the day, the best thing you can do is talk to him, simply have a few words to him, nothing too full on, what you explained in your question is just about spot on.
cloudy_conscience answered Wednesday April 2 2008, 10:29 pm: Well of course he thinks about it, he is a boy, but whether he thinks about it in the way like he wants to be more I don't know. Maybe you should ask him about it. Let him know you think about it and if you maybe like him and want to become more let him know that too. Talking is always a good option.
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