I just turned 16 and I'm of course a girl. I never cared about what I wore to school, mostly it was jeans and t-shirts with a pony-tail, right? Well maybe two weeks ago I got the nerve to talk to this guy I've been crushing on for a while and he was nice, but only in a "I'm being nice only until someone else comes along." I dunno what switch went off in my body, but all of the sudden I wanted to be a "GIRL" for once. I wanted to flirt, I wanted to be the one the guy comes up and talks to just to talk. I felt like I could do it, but I didn't know how to do it. I know I am a girl but the main question is... How do I be a "girl"? Is it a natural thing or do I have to practice? Any help is great.
Thanks to anyone,
The tomboy turned girly-girl
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Jeanne answered Wednesday April 2 2008, 3:36 am: Wow, my friend just went through the same transformation. Up until last year, she was the typical tomboy - sweats & t-shirts, ponytail, etc. But this year - wow! - what a change! For the first time, she's been wearing her hair down, wearing makeup and jewelry, and buying some really cute outfits. Her personality hasn't changed at all, just the way she dresses. And the guys have definitely noticed! She went from being pretty much invisible to being asked out left and right! She's still one of the "jock" girls, but now she's a hot jock!
So yeah... keep being yourself. Like you said, you ARE a girl. Just let the guys know it by taking a little more time to make yourself look like one. There's nothing wrong with that at all... it's completely natural to want to look and feel feminine. And the nice thing is, you can do it and still be yourself. [ Jeanne's advice column | Ask Jeanne A Question ]
xojessii answered Wednesday April 2 2008, 2:49 am: just be yourself.
if you want to be all flirty, be flirty.
if you feel like dressing down and putting your hair up go for it. or if you feel like getting all pretty and styling your hair, do that to.
its nothing you can practice.
just be yourself =] [ xojessii's advice column | Ask xojessii A Question ]
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