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i need advice
my name is brandon i used to be emo i carved my friend name in my arm but before i did that she said it would be kool but then she saw it and i asked her not to tell anybody and she did and i got introbule and i hate her now i mean she was my best friend and she betrayed me so should i give up on our friendship or wat
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i don't think that you should give up on the friendship. she wasn't trying to lie to you or betray you. she was probably really, really worried about you. cutting is scary for people who have never done it before. so before you did it she was probably like, "cool, yeah it's no big deal" and when she saw it she was probably thinking "oh my god, i wonder how bad it really was..." and she started to get really worried. even though it got you into trouble, it did get you help, right?? your friend put you and your life before the friendship. so don't give up on it. your friend just really cares about you.
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You shouldn't. She actually did what a good friend should do. Even though she did something you didn't like and caused you trouble, it was good trouble. It's never good to hide a secret that can harm them. She told because she was worried about you and really cared about you. Think about it. If one of your friends was suicidal, would you hide it? (not that you are/were suicidal, not what I meant.) I would approach her and talk to her about it. Get her side of the story, get to know how she felt and her reasons for doing what she did. No friendship should end because of something like that. I hope this helped. Good luck with your friendship.
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