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Theres this boy..
f/14 Don't tell me im too young to have sex. I know i shouldnt have, that was my mistake last year in 2007 there was this boy I started liking in april. well in August, I asked him out and he said he was really sorry but no. but we flirt sooo much its unbeliveable[sp] then a few weeks go by and he ends up sneaking over to my hoouse at like 1:00 am and I snuck him in my bedroom window and things started out normally for us alot of flirting, kissing, but before the night was over with i ended up giving my virginity to him. so a week later I decided I was going to ask him out again and hes like idk let me think about it. two weeks pass. I asked if hes made his mind up yet and he says he still dont know. tehn like a freakin month and a half passes and he still says idk..he never truly gave me a yes or no. I stopped talking to him for a long time. We just recently started talking again. today I seen him kiss one of my good friends and it really hurt me. I dont like him anymore.. but it still hurts... why cant i seem to get over him after he hurt me so badly?
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I agree with the girl who wrote below me. You will always feel something for the guy that took your virginity. Hell. You will always feel something for any guy you have ever liked. And when the guy kisses another girl, especially a friend it hurts. Believe me, I know it hurts. The fact that you dont have him or never did really hurts. I suggest for you to have a serious talk with him or just stop seeing him.
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There will ALWAYS be a spot on your heart for that person that took your virginity to him. And I know you don't want to hear it, but that was your biggest mistake was giving him what it was that he was after. For a lot of guys, that's all that they are really after, no matter how fair that seems. It's going to take a while for you to be able to move on and forget about him but always you will hold a spot for him because he was the first one and no one else can have what he had. Good luck hun and let me know if you need more help.
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