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Love
hi,
im from london,
um...there's this guy in my school that im proper into, and we was proper close friends and all and we nearly went out with each other but we didnt coz of me acting like a div! and for some reason he just stopped talking to me and i tried to talk to him alone but he just didnt want to he just refuses! and i always see him around school like every minute of the day and i dont know what to do its hard to seeing him around school! and i tried moving on but i just cant, its too hard!
what should i do?!?!?!?!?!? thanx...
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The best thing I can tell is to just give him some time. Say hi to him and give him a smile if you see him pass you by in class or the hallway. DO NOT ignore him! That will complicate things and they will not work out in your favor what so ever. There may be something bothering him out side your control. We all get annoyed with people thats human nature, but there may be something else bothering him that has nothing to do with you at all. If that is the case just give him some time and maybe let him know that you are there for him if he needs it. And if you think you did something to him, walk up to him, look him in the eye, I repeat, look him in the eye, and say something like "I'm sorry for whatever I did that bothered you, I will give you time if that is what you need, you know how I feel, if you want to talk to me you need to make the initiative, the ball is in your court."
Good luck, I hope that helps you win him back, we have all been in that spot before. It'll work out for the best, I promise.
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It is a pleasure to meet you, as it should be for this young man, but you should stop pursuing him. Stay in his line of sight and let him get over what ever it is that turned him off so to you. Don't be rude, say hi as you pass him and wait, you'll know when to go further then saying hi. We all grow up, we all get over the stupid stuff, give it time.
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